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Books on the Loss of a Pet

These books are listed alphabetical by title.  If you click on the title of the book you can read a description of the book and find links to Amazon.com where you can compare prices for the book.


 

 

 

 

 

Book Title

Author


Blessing the Bridge Rita M. Reynolds
Goodbye, Friend: Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Ever Lost a Pet Gary Kowalski
How to ROAR: Pet Loss Grief Recovery Robin Jean Brown
My Personal Pet Remembrance Journal Enid S. Traisman
Pet Loss and Children: Establishing a Healthy Foundation Cheri Barton Ross
Pet Loss and Human Emotion Cheri Barton Ross
Saying Good-Bye to the Pet Your Love: A Complete Resource to Help You Heal Lorri A. Greene and Jacquelyn Landis
Surviving the Heartbreak of Choosing Death for Your Pet Linda Mary Peterson
The Kingdom of Heart: A Pet Loss Journal Patty L. Luckenbach
When Only the Love Remains: The Pain of Pet Loss Emily Margaret Stuparyk
   

 

 


 

Blessing the Bridge
by Rita M. Reynolds


 















 


Like a hospice worker, author Rita M. Reynolds cares for sick and dying animals, helping them comfortably cross the threshold into death. At times, Blessing the Bridge reads like a kindly vet's instruction book, teaching basic skills in respectfully handling a dying animal, whether it's a newborn bird that's fallen from its nest or a beloved dog that's terminally ill. Readers learn ways to make an animal comfortable, such as laying wild animals to rest in beds of flowers or letting domestic animals die in a human's arms. What separates Reynolds from other authors that write about caring for sick and dying animals is her willingness to take the process into a more intuitive and spiritual realm. Reynolds offers suggestions for how to dialogue with dying animals to find out their preferences--whether they wish to die on their own or die through the mercy of euthanasia. She also believes in divine and angelic influences when it comes to helping animals cross over: "Much like the physician or midwife who helps the mother and infant through the birthing process, the angelic ones stand ready to assist those who are dying, but from the other side to speak, waiting on the spirit side of the bridge called death." There is no question in Reynolds's mind that animals possess unique souls or that they move onto an afterlife. She even tells of seeing the spirits of dead animals visiting her. Many of her lessons are conveyed through real-life stories, where we witness how she simultaneously releases and embraces dying animals. Like The Tibetan Book of the Dead, this book has functional appeal and spiritual longevity. Reynolds shows us how to ritualize and soothe animals' deaths, while also offering us abiding wisdom about life on earth. --Gail Hudson

For the past 15 years, Rita M. Reynolds has provided a sanctuary to sick and dying animals. In her sentimental and sincere Blessing the Bridge: What Animals Teach Us About Death, Dying, and Beyond, featuring a foreword by Gary Kowalski (The Souls of Animals), she credits these creatures with enabling her to accept death more freely and to realize that everlasting love endures beyond this world. Agent, Barbara Bowen.


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Goodbye, Friend:  Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Ever Lost a Pet
by Gary Kowalski


 

Kowalski's new book is full of sound, compassionate advice to get you through the loss of your pet(s). Included are ideas for rituals and ceremonies, spiritual guidance and readings and poems to use for solace. The author's voice is a soothing one, not surprising for a minister whose job it is to be wise and reflective. The book also addresses animals' grieving; their life spans; their growth, illnesses and needs. These are similar to ours: need to eat, to exercise, to sleep, to have fun, to enjoy companionship and to expect routine. Kowalski includes advice on how to take care of yourself after the death of a pet and the importance of honesty when talking with children about this event. Kowalski's book is not only useful for healing when a good friend dies, but also reasserts his primary message: that animals are important, that "pets are not petty," that they deserve our respect and our kind care.
 


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How to ROAR: Pet Loss Grief Recovery
by Robin Jean Brown


 

Robin Jean Brown understands firsthand the deep bond that can develop between person and animal. She's not some cold psychologist, but rather a pet owner herself who dealt with her own painful journey through the grieving process. She found that there wasn't a lot of help for her. Other books are either too cold and clinical...or they're too sad, and just make you cry harder. And none of them had workbook-style questions to guide her through her journey. So Robin wrote the guide herself - to deal with your grief, effectively and step by step. She is personal, empathetic, and comforting - yet at the same time she'll help you move through your grief.


 


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My Personal Pet Remembrance Journal
by Enid S. Traisman


 

This gentle and enchanting journal is an excellent place to celebrate the life and passing of a much-cherished animal companion. It encourages a deep and healing introspection, gives tribute to the unique gifts of out animal companions, and documents our path into, up, and beyond the dark hollow of mourning and grief. This journal is a kind and compassionate anchor, leading us gently and surely through the tangled paths of grief, helping us to find our feet again, to seek love again.




 


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Pet Loss and Children: Establishing a Healthy Foundation
by Cheri Barton Ross

 

 

Explaining the concept of death to a child is a very difficult, confusing, and uncomfortable experience for a parent, educator, or therapist, and it is a topic that is often first introduced by the loss of a pet - sometimes a child's earliest exposure to loss and grief. There is an undeniably special bond that develops between people and their pets, especially between animals and young children, and while the death of a pet can be devastating to an adult, children are often deeply affected by such a loss. Without readily available outlets for their feelings, the trauma of pet loss can remain with a child for life, and without help many adults feel inadequate and not up to the task. The aim of this book is to provide therapists, counselors, educators, parents, social workers, veterinarians, and physicians with resources to help children cope with the loss of a pet.


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Pet Loss and Human Emotion
by Cheri Barton Ross

 



 


This updated edition of Pet Loss and Human Emotion is a step-by-step guide to leading clients through this special kind of grief. Includes resources and a section on pet loss and natural disasters.

As society accepts that grieving over the death of a loved one is not only normal, but healthy and necessary, grieving over the loss of a pet is often seen differently. Expressed feelings often go unvalidated when in truth, pet loss is a unique form of grief that can be quite intense and debilitating, increasing an individual's vulnerability to subsequent stress and leaving them feeling isolated and misunderstood.

Pet loss needs to be addressed by therapists and others in the helping professions, to better enable them to help their clients through the loss of their companion animals. This unique guide is written for all professionals helping clients deal with the loss of a pet, and serves as a practical introduction to the field of human-animal bonding. Citing several case studies, it describes various techniques for helping clients when the bond with a pet is broken.

 


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Saying Good-Bye to the Pet You Love: A Complete Resource to Help you Heal
by Lorri A. Greene and Jacquelyn Landis


 

There is no detailed book description available at this time.


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Surviving the Heartbreak of Choosing Death for Your Pet
by Linda Mary Peterson


 

There is no detailed book description available at this time.

 


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The Kingdom of Heart: A Pet Loss Journal
by Patty L. Luckenbach

 

There is no detailed book description available at this time.


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When Only the Love Remains: The Pain of Pet Loss
by Emily Margaret Stuparyk


 

There is no detailed book description available at this time.

 


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