Hansen-Spear Bereavement Resources
 
Children's Books for Grief and Bereavement

These books are listed alphabetical by title.  If you click on the title of the book you can read a description of the book and find links to Amazon.com where you can compare prices for the book.


 

 

 

 

 

Book Title

Author


35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child Dougy Center for Grieving Children
A Child Remembers Enid S. Traisman
After a Murder: A Workbook for Grieving Kids Dougy Center for Grieving Children
After a Parent's Suicide: Helping Children Heal Margo Requarth
After a Suicide: A Workbook for Grieving Kids Dougy Center for Grieving Children
Breaking the Silence: A Guide to Help Children with Complicated Grief- Suicide, Homicide, AIDS, Violence and Abuse Linda Goldman
Children Also Grieve Linda Goldman
Children Helping Children with Grief Beverly Chappell
Helping Children Cope with Death Dougy Center for Grieving Children
Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities for Helping Kids Cope When a Special Person Dies Janis Silverman
Life and Loss: A Guide to Help Grieving Children Linda Goldman
Pet Loss and Children: Establishing a Healthy Foundation Cheri Barton Ross
Reactions Alison Salloum
Someone I Love Died by Suicide: A Story for Child Survivors and Those Who Care for Them Doreen Cammarata
Sunflowers and Rainbows for Tia: Saying Goodbye to Daddy Alesia K. Alexander
Talking About Death Earl A. Grollman
The Grieving Child Helen Fitzgerald
Treating Trauma and Traumatic Grief in Children and Adolescents Judith A. Cohen
What About the Kids? Understanding Their Needs in Funeral Planning and Services Dougy Center for Grieving Children
When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Can Learn to Cope with Greif Marge Heegaard

 

 


 

35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child
by Dougy Center for Grieving Children

 
 


If you know a child or teen who has experienced a death, this guidebook presents you with simple and practical suggestions for how to support him or her. Learn what behaviors and reactions to expect from children at different ages, ways to create safe outlets for children to express their thoughts and feelings and how to be supportive during special events such as the memorial service, anniversaries and holidays.

Since 1983, The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families has provided loving support in a safe place where children, teens and their families grieving a death can share their experiences as they move through their healing process. Based in Portland, Oregon, The Dougy Center works regionally, nationally and internationally to provide support and training to individuals and organizations seeking to assist children in grief.

The Dougy Center is supported solely through private support from individuals, foundations and companies, and receives no state or federal funding. The Dougy Center does not charge a fee for its services.


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A Child Remembers
by Enid S. Traisman


 

A Write in memory book for bereaved children ages 8-12. This is a unique tool for children who are grieving the loss of someone they love. There are pages for writing about the person's life and death, a goodbye letter, pages to draw the service and more. Keeps memories safely preserved.






 


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After a Murder: A Workbook for Grieving Kids
by Dougy Center for Grieving Children

 


 


Through the stories, thoughts and feelings of other kids who have experienced a murder, this hands-on workbook allows children to see that they are not alone in their feelings and experiences. The workbook includes drawing activities, puzzles and word games to help explain confusing elements specific to a murder, such as the police, media and legal system.

Since 1983, The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families has provided loving support in a safe place where children, teens and their families grieving a death can share their experiences as they move through their healing process. Based in Portland, Oregon, The Dougy Center works regionally, nationally and internationally to provide support and training to individuals and organizations seeking to assist children in grief.

The Dougy Center is supported solely through private support from individuals, foundations and companies, and receives no state or federal funding. The Dougy Center does not charge a fee for its services.

 


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After A Parent's Suicide: Helping Children Heal
by Margo Requarth

 

 

 

 

While many books have been written for grieving families, very few focus on the specific needs encountered by children and teens coping with the suicide of a parent. After a Parent’s Suicide: Helping Children Heal addresses the issues every family must face following the trauma of suicide. In this instructive and impassioned work, longtime children’s bereavement counselor and psychotherapist Margo Requarth, M.A., M.F.T., offers pathways through the despair, confusion and fear that follow.

Starting with the haunting tale of her own mother’s suicide, Requarth weaves together her experience counseling “survivors,” poignant interviews with children, teens and parents, and the latest research on suicide and its aftermath. What emerges is a groundbreaking “how-to” guide for parent survivors and others who care for young people: how to manage both the immediate and long-term implications of the suicide, how to talk to children and teens about what has happened, how to see them through the heart-rending anguish to a place of acceptance, healing, and finally, a renewed and deepened capacity for joy.

 


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After a Suicide: A Workbook for Grieving Kids
by Dougy Center for Grieving Children

 





 


In this hands-on, interactive workbook, children who have been exposed to a suicide can learn from other grieving kids. The workbook includes drawing activities, puzzles, stories, advice from other kids and helpful suggestions for how to navigate the grief process after a suicide death.

Since 1983, The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families has provided loving support in a safe place where children, teens and their families grieving a death can share their experiences as they move through their healing process. Based in Portland, Oregon, The Dougy Center works regionally, nationally and internationally to provide support and training to individuals and organizations seeking to assist children in grief.

The Dougy Center is supported solely through private support from individuals, foundations and companies, and receives no state or federal funding. The Dougy Center does not charge a fee for its services.


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Breaking the Silence: A Guide to Help Children with Complicated Grief- Suicide, Homicide, AIDS, Violence and Abuse
by Linda Goldman

 






 



The second edition of this bestselling book is designed for mental health professionals, educators, and the parent/caregiver, this book provides specific ideas and techniques to work with children in various areas of complicated grief. It presents words and methods to help initiate discussions of these delicate topics, as well as tools to help children understand and separate complicated grief into parts. These parts in turn can be grieved for and released one at a time.

A new chapter is included, called "Communities Grieve: Involvement with Children and Trauma." It includes information on The Taiwan Earthquake and how the community worked with children, a school bus accident in which 36 elementary school children witnessed the death of the bus driver that was driving and how the school system worked with these children and their families; a boy who was running on a cross country team and got hit by a car, which was witnessed by teammates; and how a non-profit community grief agency worked with family, school, and community. The last study is from the Oklahoma bombing and the outgrowth of a place for the traumatized children and how they still work with kids and family today. This chapter then contains new activities to work with traumatized grieving children.

The new edition also includes updated resources, books, curriculums, websites, hotlines and another new chapter on bullying and victimization issues. The chapter for educators has been expanded, including the coverage of topics such as at-risk students, gay and lesbian issues, and self-injurious behaviors.


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Children Also Grieve
by Linda Goldman

 


 


From School Library Journal

PreSchool-Grade 1–This title, meant to be shared by a child and an adult, will help youngsters deal with grief. The book is divided into four sections. In Henry's Story, the family dog tells of Grandfather's death and describes family members and their various responses (Grandfather died and I am very sad; This is Ling….He is sad after Grandfather died and doesn't feel like playing ball anymore). Each reaction is different, but considered completely normal. Some pages include a question or two designed to encourage children to talk about their feelings (Can you tell me what you think death is?). Colored photographs are interspersed throughout the dog's narration. The My Memory Book section contains 19 pages of fill-in-the-blank sentences and opportunities to add or draw pictures. A two-page glossary defines words associated with death and grieving. The last part, For Caring Adults, provides information about a child's understanding of death, signs of grief, and more. While some children might wonder why the dog is telling the story, this book will encourage dialogue and will aid children in dealing with loss and healing.–Maryann H. Owen, Racine Public Library, WI
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.


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Children Helping Children with Greif
by Beverly Chappell

 

In 1982, Beverly Chappell met Dougy Turno, a young boy suffering from an inoperable brain tumor. Dougy’s wisdom, compassion, and thirst for life far exceeded his 13 years. His death inspired Bev, a registered nurse working in the area of death and dying, to start support groups for grieving children. At the time, medical and psychological professionals did not widely acknowledge that children grieve. Undaunted, and with the help of her mentor, Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Bev founded The Dougy Center. Since its founding, the center has served more than 15,000 children and their families, and its training program has taught thousands of others how to help children cope with death. In this book, Beverly Chappell writes about her work and the center, and about the many grieving families she's met over the years — families who have inspired her to continue her groundbreaking work.


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Helping Children Cope with Death
by Dougy Center for Grieving Children

 

 

 

 

This guidebook offers a comprehensive, easy-to-read overview of how children grieve and strategies to support them. Based on The Dougy Center’s work with thousands of grieving children and their families, you will learn how children understand death, how to talk with children about death at various developmental stages, how to be helpful and when to seek outside help. This book is useful for parents, teachers, helping professionals and anyone trying to support a grieving child.

Since 1983, The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families has provided loving support in a safe place where children, teens and their families grieving a death can share their experiences as they move through their healing process. Based in Portland, Oregon, The Dougy Center works regionally, nationally and internationally to provide support and training to individuals and organizations seeking to assist children in grief.

The Dougy Center is supported solely through private support from individuals, foundations and companies, and receives no state or federal funding. The Dougy Center does not charge a fee for its services.

 


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Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities for Helping Kids Cope When a Special Person Dies
by Janis Silverman

 

An art therapy and activity book for children coping with death. Sensitive exercises address all the questions children may have during this emotional and troubling crisis. Children are encouraged to express in pictures what they are often incapable of expressing in words.

Author teaches gifted children in a Chicago suburb. Art therapy book that encourages children to express their feelings in words or pictures. Discusses what to say and do, how to deal with feelings, and how to remember friends and relatives that have died. For parents, teachers, and therapists. Landscape format.

 


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Life and Loss: A Guide to Help Grieving Children
by Linda Goldman

 


 


With this resource, the reader learns to recognize and understand different types of childhood losses while avoiding the stifling cliches that block feeling. The reader will also become aware of the myths that hinder the grief process, learn the four psychological tasks of grief, and help a child say good-bye to a dying loved one. Finally, the author explains the techniques of grief work, providing useful tools, ideas, and inventories for educators to discover ways for kids to commemorate loss (funerals, memorials, memory books).

The second edition of Life and Loss creates a framework for work with childhood grief in the new millennium. A vast amount of resources have been added and updated, some especially for educators and for those who work with children and dying. Also included are web sites, cd-roms, and grief camps. Additional grief resolution techniques have also been added, demonstrating children's written work and artwork as well. The inclusion of two timely childhood losses - the loss of the protection of the adult world and the loss of a future - sets the stage for griefwork for today's and tomorrow's children

 


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Pet Loss and Children: Establishing a Healthy Foundation
by Cheri Barton Ross

 

 

Explaining the concept of death to a child is a very difficult, confusing, and uncomfortable experience for a parent, educator, or therapist, and it is a topic that is often first introduced by the loss of a pet - sometimes a child's earliest exposure to loss and grief. There is an undeniably special bond that develops between people and their pets, especially between animals and young children, and while the death of a pet can be devastating to an adult, children are often deeply affected by such a loss. Without readily available outlets for their feelings, the trauma of pet loss can remain with a child for life, and without help many adults feel inadequate and not up to the task. The aim of this book is to provide therapists, counselors, educators, parents, social workers, veterinarians, and physicians with resources to help children cope with the loss of a pet.


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Reactions
by Alison Salloum



 

Reactions - A workbook to help young people who are experiencing trauma and grief. Excellent workbook for children working through grief and loss after a violent crime to family member or self. May also be used for abuse.

Alison Salloum, a Board Certified Social Worker. She currently works for the Children's Bureau in New Orleans where she supervises project LAST.




 


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Someone I Love Died by Suicide: A Story for Child Survivors and Those Who Care for Them
by Doreen Cammarata

 

"Someone I Love Died By Suicide: A story for children survivors and those who care for them” is designed for adult caregivers to read to surviving youngsters following a suicidal death. The story in this book allows individuals an opportunity to recognize normal grieving symptoms and to identify various interventions to promote healthy ways of coping with the death of a special person. Although the language used in the book is simplistic enough to be read along with children ultimately stimulating family discussion, it can be beneficial to all who have been tragically devastated by suicide. It is recommended for this book to be utilized in conjunction with therapy.

 


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Sunflowers and Rainbows for Tia: Saying Goodbye to Daddy
by Alesia K. Alexander

 

This first children's book tells how a young girl feels when her father dies and how she and her family express their sadness as well as their love for him.

 

 

 

 


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Talking About Death
by Earl A. Grolllman


 

Why do people die? How do you explain the loss of a loved one to a child? This book is a compassionate guide for adults and children to read together, featuring a read along story, answers to questions children ask about death, and a comprehensive list of resources and organizations that can help.






 


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The Grieving Child
by Helen Fitzgerald



 

This excellent book, written by the director of a grief program in a community health center, is intended as a guide for parents seeking to explain the death of a parent, relative, friend, or even a pet to a child. The book's format employs a paragraph numbering system, which allows readers to turn to relevant information easily. All subjects are listed in the table of contents and index. Suggestions are given for dealing with emotional responses and helping in the child's adjustment to a new life. Fitzgerald believes in using a clear, direct approach when explaining death to a child, yet her tone is gentle and loving. Recommended for most parenting collections.
- Jan Wiedemann, Vernon, Tex.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.


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Treating Trauma and Traumatic Greif in Children and Adolescents
by Judith A. Cohen, Anthony P. Mannarino and Ester Deblinger

 


This is one of the first books to present a systematic treatment approach, grounded in cognitive-behavioral therapy, for traumatized children and their families. Provided is a comprehensive framework for assessing posttraumatic stress disorder, depression, anxiety, and other symptoms; developing a flexible, individualized treatment plan; and working collaboratively with children and parents to build core skills in such areas as affect regulation and safety. Specific guidance is offered for responding to different types of traumatic events, with an entire section devoted to grief-focused components. Also addressed are ways to tailor treatment to children's varying developmental levels and cultural backgrounds. The authors' approach has been nationally recognized as an exemplary evidence-based program.


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What About the Kids? Understanding Their Needs in Funeral Planning and Services
by Dougy Center for Grieving Children


 
 


This book addresses the best practices for funeral and memorial services with children and teens. Learn how to include children in these rituals and creative ways to involve them in the process. You will find suggestions from children and teens about what was helpful and unhelpful about the funeral or memorial service they attended.

Since 1983, The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families has provided loving support in a safe place where children, teens and their families grieving a death can share their experiences as they move through their healing process. Based in Portland, Oregon, The Dougy Center works regionally, nationally and internationally to provide support and training to individuals and organizations seeking to assist children in grief.

The Dougy Center is supported solely through private support from individuals, foundations and companies, and receives no state or federal funding. The Dougy Center does not charge a fee for its services.


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When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief
by Marge Heegaard

 

The Drawing Out Series. Children Can Learn to Cope with Loss and Change. Children are given the opportunity to work out their emotions during difficult times while learning to recognize acceptable behavior. Self-esteem is increased while coping skills for loss and change are developed.

 

 

 


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